How do you make friends and keep them as an adult?

The latest Indiehackers digest made me reflect on this. For me it’s pretty easy to make friends but so so hard to keep them for more than 1 year +.

How about you? What do you do to make friends, what’s your criteria, what are ways that you can consistently build that friendship over time?

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I saw a reference to this in your recently email.

If you find out, can you let me know? lol.

I think I mostly find them either through my kids or through my professional interests. Often through local communities, events, meetups.

It’s definitely tough.

Ill write out some patterns I’ve noticed and also ask around, I don’t think there’s a clear answer but maybe I can get some discussion around it